Is He a Man-Child or a Grown-Up? – 14 Things Mature Men Never Do
Maturity separates boys from men. Guys don’t reach a certain age, and just like that, they are ready to be mature, responsible adults. It is a psychological skill, so even men throwing tantrums or acting like children can grow and become better versions of themselves. Here are some common things mature men won’t do that are typical for immature guys.
Mature men won’t hide from responsibilities
A mature man will accept his responsibilities instead of making excuses to avoid them. By taking responsibility for his actions, a mature man shows he has control over his life and will feel contentment knowing he did his best. From honoring commitments to organizing priorities, mature men like to see that they did their best to take care of their responsibilities.
Mature men aren’t confrontational
Instead of mocking others or falling victim to bullies, a mature guy will try solving an issue through assertiveness and placing boundaries. They are less likely to resort to violence, which is why immature men might perceive them as weak or cowardly. However, mature men know their self-worth and how to stand up for themselves without letting things get out of control, even if it means leaving the immature ones thinking they won.
Mature men won’t blame others for their problems
Blaming others is a common coping mechanism or, in some cases, a manipulation tactic. Mature men don’t engage in these behaviors because they are not productive, and they know that with responsibility comes accountability. They will face the issues and find ways to avoid future mistakes.
Mature men don’t do things to please others
Mature guys do not do things to impress others. They know their worth, and their actions are motivated by a desire to be better or do better, to learn and grow for themselves and those closest to them. However, if you ask a mature person for a favor, and they commit to it, you know they will do everything they can to fulfill their commitment.
Mature men won’t let fear run their life
Everyone fears something, but it is up to us to decide whether fear will take control over our lives. Mature guys understand that facing fears will lead to more significant opportunities and may improve their relationships, careers, and social lives. They want to avoid getting stuck in their comfort zone because that’s not the path to growth and self-improvement.
Mature men aren’t scared of making decisions
Indecisiveness comes from fear of making the wrong decision or fear of failure. While mature men might be scared, they also understand that the longer they procrastinate, the more stressful things will get, so once they assess the situation, they will come to a resolution and accept the consequences.
Mature men do not react on impulse
An immature man or so-called man-child does not think of consequences while acting impulsively. In contrast, mature guys are not keen on making hasty decisions, especially when they involve others. They also don’t just blurb out the first thing that comes to their minds because they understand the outcome could hurt someone’s feelings. Children act on impulses, which can be adorable, but grown men should know better.
Mature men will not ignore their wellbeing
Immature men may think they are invincible, but for mature guys, taking care of themselves is their responsibility, and they are unwilling to take any chances. This does not mean they are spending all their time at the gym or only eating kale, but they are informed enough and willing to make changes to keep themselves healthy.
Mature men won’t disrespect other people’s time
Immature men don’t know how to finish things in time because organization isn’t part of their everyday lives. But mature guys know that others are worth as much as they are, and they won’t allow themselves to be disrespectful. They know when to say “no,” so they don’t get overworked and honor others who depend on them.
Mature men have decent relationships with families
Some people are closer to their families, and others aren’t. But a mature guy will never disrespect his family in front of strangers or air dirty laundry in public. Even if they had difficult childhoods, at the end of the day, mature men will be grateful for it because it led them to become who they are today. If they have problems, they will talk to those closest to them.
Mature men don’t act like they know it all
Mature guys are often curious and aware that they can’t be experts on every subject. They will not pretend to be know-it-alls, and their egos won’t melt when they ask for clarification. Asking is how we learn, and though many men avoid it, mature men won’t hesitate to ask for help if they are stuck or don’t understand something.
Mature men will not avoid planning for the future
Immature guys might live for the moment, but mature ones know how to be present while investing in the future. This is especially important in romantic relationships but is also vital to one’s career path. Mature men will only commit when they are confident about their decisions, which is a quality highly appreciated in all aspects of life.
Mature men won’t despair in front of problems
A mature man will not dwell on a challenge when faced with it. They might take time to regroup, rethink their actions, and then focus on finding a suitable solution. That makes them great in times of uncertainty, at work, or home. They might not have all the answers, but they are problem-solvers, and that positivity and willingness to make things work is encouraging and commendable.
Mature men don’t send mixed signals
If a mature man wants a relationship, he will make his intentions clear. If not, he will not play games because that’s beneath him. It does not mean they do not enjoy seduction or they will always be ideal partners. However, they will try to be pragmatic since they tend to treat others as they want to be treated.
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